I agree with the flowers. I wish I had the "b*lls" to do that. My H probably wouldn't even read the card, and wouldn't care anyway.
Enjoy the party ... try not to let him cause negative feelings. I know how difficult that is.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim