You really have 2 choices then - to have the conversation or not. But remember, if you have the convo you have to be prepared for her honest (at the time) answers.
If you can't handle it, it might not be best to have the convo.
Of course, if you don't have the convo then remember it's you taking some control of the situation by deciding not to have it, but then you have to live with the consequences of not having it- like the lack of physical affection. You already expressed some small resentment.
Many, many here would tell you not to have the convo because it's too early, it's pursing, yada, yada, yada. I won't.
don't put some much stock and energy into one conversation.
Personally, I think she's telling you (maybe not with words) what the safe level is for her right now. But don't get stuck on the right now...that can improve my friend. You are in a much better situation right now that a lot of people.
If you do, remember to be calm, collect and honest. Don't react to negative information. It can be tough, but you can do it.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
