Its not so much to flip it, as to see it for what it is, an unrealistic statement. But whatever works is fine, there are no rights and wrongs as long as you dont stay in a rut. I dont care what you have to go through, whether thats whining, slamming doors, crying, anger, feeling sorry for yourself, whatever ......the point is to go THROUGH it, if you do that its all good in the end.
