Am very greatful to everyone who has contributed to my sitch. The home situation is working out better for me not being there. (my own place is part of my GAL). I couldn't afford the mortgage payments on my own (she's gonna and is struggling to fit the bills and payments). That all benifits me I believe in her realising "[censored], my life is not gonna be this bed of roses". Once her dads estate it all tied up (not long) she'll have well over �130000 to spend keepin the house afloat. With thr property market as slow as it is she's not gonn sell our home quickly. (her plan is to sell the house ASAP and move to the city).
Maybe my thinking is wrong in this respect and I hear the contributions being suggested by a few of yous. Her bring dumped with this house is all part of her great plan failing. I believe she's came up with this plan quickly without any thought and it's all gonna come crashing down around her (I suppose help her hit rock bottom)
I've had my share of the property asset in cash. Nothing in writing so I know I can screw her over if I want but I have no intention of doing so. To be honest getting out of the home will benifit me more rather that living everyday in our home filled with our dreams. She can sit and suffer that not me. I don't think she's so cold as to not experience this.
We have a deal that no guy comes into our marital home. She's agreed so far with this.
It seems to me the dating market she's finding to be a failure. This house is gonna fail around her so it's all good for my theory it might lift her fog.
Once again my gratitude to everyone who is contributing to my sitch.
Oh yea, is she a MLC, WAW, depression or just an ass?
Kevin
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
