Regret: Isnt it amazing the things you think when your young, and then as you get older you understand that you really didnt have any idea what you were talking about back then. If you had told me 20 years ago that I would ever have a wife cheat on me then I would have told you that I wouldnt have a wife anymore b/c i'd get rid of her so fast it would make her head spin....well 6 years ago it happened and we're still married. I bring that up because my brother and his wife were divorced and then remarried when I was much younger and I thought that was the craziest thing I hd ever heard of. If your married, and then things get so bad that you have to get a divorce, what in the heck are you doing marrying that person again.
Im hopeful i'll never eat those words, but I understand it much more now. If I thought that divorce would bring us back together i'd be the one filing as quickly as possible so we could get started on the get back together part. I guess I dont have a point except that I can look back and see for myself how dumb I used to be, and also think that its a reason often times to ignore friends even when they think their giving you great advice....not on here mind you, but I have friends who already think I should just be done with this whole thing and get a divorce, even though we've only been apart 11 weeks. They simply don't understand b/c they've never been there.
