Yeah, it's a shame you moved out because basically you're making her decisions for her when you do that. Force her to make her own decisions. My W asked me why she had to move out and not me, I told her SHE was the one that wanted to break up the marriage and family not ME!! As far as I was concerned she could stay as long as she wanted. She never argued the point again and began making arrangements to move out.
You didn't mention if you have read DB and or DR, but if not then do so right away. Bottom line is you need to detach from her and "act as if" you're moving on, even if you're hurt and suffering inside you show her nothing but grace, strength and confidence on the outside. You've got to become the guy she fell in love with back when, not the guy she kicked out. You've got to get a life (GAL)- make connections with old friends, do stuff for you (run, bike, lift weights, pick up a hobby). Most of all, be patient. Getting her back is a marathon, not a sprint. You've got to change yourself and then persevere until she decides to notice and acknowledge your changes. Good luck!
