Starsky.....mine wasn't warnings about affairs so much as just warnings from my best friend even that I needed to spend more time with my wife. I was spending time with the kids, being a good dad I thought, working myself half to death trying to give them and her things....and completely missed the fact that the only 'time' we spent together was at 11:00 at night either arguing over sex or having it b/c she thought that would be easier than saying no and having me be passive agressive for the next few days and be an @ss.
And the darndest part is if she knew thats how I actually felt right now she'd probably be working on us as we speak, but if she heard me say any of that right now she wouldnt believe even one part of it was genuine. I'll show her in the long run though b/c im gonna live it not say it.
