My husband walked out on me after an argument on August 2, 2012. he was supposed to leave that weekend to work on a racecar (that is his hobby). He left me hanging because he wouldn't come home, he wouldn't talk to me about anything other then business things. After being gone 2 1/2 weeks, we talked after meeting at a mutual friends house. He told me he was deciding if he loved me enough to come home and resume our marriage. A few days after that he told me he was coming home. He has now returned home, he did apologize for hurting me, but we have not talked aboput things. I have been working on myself with a counselor who is solution oriented and I had a session with a DB counselor.
My question is: now that he is home, how do i trust him? I don't ever want that to happen again. I am working on myself and my parts of our problems, but how do I get him to work on things? He is unwilling to go to counseling at this point. I am trying to GAL, which I see is my main problem. All of focus has been on him and not myself. Any suggestions would be appreciated!! Terri
