My wife has no reason to worry because she knows that I will be there and she is trapped in negativity and really does not have to make a choice right now. I need to get on with things and if she decides to rejoin this marriage than great. Me hanging out at the house all the time is not helping.
What I would like to know now is how should someone respond when they are detaching and the wife then wants to work things out. I just want to be prepared. I think if I am not I might be overly enthusiastic and that might not be good.
Thanks again to everyone for their help. I think I got it now.
