Just kind of journaling on this entry, but W is moving out soon. Lease is signed and starts this weekend. She has a few empty boxes in her car, but so far doesn't seem too motivated to start packing. We're still getting along great (platonically). I'm applying no pressure to her about the move or our relationship, all talk is about the kids and how her work is going, friends, etc. Light and fluffy. She's been fairly stoic lately (but upbeat), hard to get a read on her. I'm not in full blown detachment mode yet because she's still home, just sticking with the 180's and showing her the loving, caring husband and father that she'll (hopefully) start missing once she moves out.
When I say I'm not in full blown detachment, mainly I'm not acting aloof and I do still give her a hug once or twice a day. She hugs back and isn't pushing away, so I'll keep it up until she moves out. Although it may not fit in with DB, it is one of the 5 love languages and I'm communicating my love to her through all 5 right now (and NOT through words).
I've reestablished old friendships (GAL) and that's helped to cope with things. I read Michele's 34 tips a few times a week just to remind myself what to do and not do. I'm reading DR through again as well.
