She recommended thinking about what I am doing and saying before I do or say it. Asking myself if it is going to help or hinder the relationship. That was my goal for the next week. Give him space, don't bring up anything at I don't think is safe, which includes our relationship.
I have a hard time not speaking my mind. That has hurt us a lot in our relationship. He is a super sensitive guy. I took that fr granted. Now, while I am still a serial pessimist, I can think about what I am about to say. Sure, maybe I still plan for the worst, but I don't say that and just focus on the positives of each situation. That is the hardest thing I have to learn not to do. Fortunately, I am maki huge strides. I get to practice on my friends while I am away from home and when I go back, will continue with the same.
I got tickets for one of my girl friends and I to go to a big football game for my alma mater. I had booked the hotel when the schedule came out, initially for my husband and I. Since I do not want to pressure him, I went ahead and asked her to go with me to GAL. It was expensive, but probably the only game I will attend this season so all in all I feel it was worth it.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
