Maybe You guys can help me..I have been seperated for about 2 weeks and I keep checking up on my w to see if she is seeing someone. I think she is but I don't know for sure and I would like to know so that I can prepare for the long haul or give up. She said initally that she wanted to date but after talking to our C she was convinced that might not be the best thing to do. There is a guy that hangs around a lot even when she has the kids. She says he just hangs out and does not talk much and there is nothing going on but I wonder...I have checked her texts...I know wrong thing to do and it seems like there is something going on but I don't know for sure...I just want to know...she has become more distant lately and it just seems so....I know i need to back off but I am having a hard time...I need to see what is in front of me...
