MrsD: I think it would be awesome if you waited to see if he embraced you, and even if he does embrace you, hold off on the peck on the neck. Your always talking about what if thats what brings him back, but what has been said here over and over? Its to continue to do whats working, and stop doing something if its not working, so while your right it MAY be what brings him back, it hasn't thus far, so what if the opposite is true, what if NOT doing it is what brings him back?
And im with Starsky, you gotta focus on YOU more. I know you love him, im desperately in love with my wife as well, but I have been able to at least somewhat picture what life would be like without her these 2 weeks. Before that I can honestly tell you that I just walked around kind of in a daze, but there have been lots of events lately that I had to be at and I just took my son with me and we had a great time at nearly all of them. Undoubtedly its a little awkward at times especially since 90% of the people there are with their spouses, but its only as awkward as you allow it to be and i've just moved forward like it was completely normal and haven't worried at all about what someone was thinking.
Thanks Carnac. You always have a way of getting me back in line with your posts. How long have you been doing this? Were you as scattered as I am now at almost 6 weeks?
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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