I've done everything wrong and need help!!!!!

[KevinScotland]

Through out the last 10 weeks since she told me she wanted to seperate and eventually divorce (in Scotland you must be seperated for a year to get a divorce under mutual seperation or 2-3 years if unagreed) she has remained solid this is what she wants. She says it's because she's unhappy in her life and wants a compete fresh start. Everything in her life she's looking to change.

Some of the smaller details that I have seen are:

1- as I was clearing out my stuff I knocked over some boxes in her office. Inside I noticed she had bought 2 pieces of new sexy underwear on the 15th of June. They were hidden (why hide underwear in your own house unless you have something to hide).
2- she went to the another festival as I was clearing my stuff out the house. For her coming home I run her a bath, put candles in the bathroom and wrote her a song (am a musician). I thought it might be nice and make her rethink. She came home I told her to jump in the bath and listen to the song. She came down 2 minutes later and said "what's with the guilt trip".
3- she has admitted going out on dates with other guys since the seperation (she did say they were boring some of them).
4- she has made comments in texts like "am trying to move on, I want you to do the same", she has removed all photos of me from the house and stored them away (and all other things I've given her life cards letters and the cd with the song on it) in a box under the bed. (this makes me think she is struggling with her desition and might change her mind).
5- she changed her story about her reasons for seperation (I know believe none of what you hear and 50% of what you see).

All they things could be all hear say and maybe am searching for hope in them. Like I said she is 100% behind what shes doing (at least that's what she's saying). I've thought about going dark totally. I did go a little dark and she did start to open up about her job worrying and did mention more of her reasons to divorce (we have different life goals and you made me feel worthless). Before she told me nothing apart from she was unhappy and didn't tell me exactly what about. I validated she probably did feel worthless but I told her I never viewed her that way. That everyday she was the most important and always the most beautiful woman in the world and I always wanted her. But now she's contradicting her first stance when she wanted to seperate. It's like she's rewriting history to suit what she's doing (maybe guilt).

She told me she was shocked and surprised and just how hard I've fought and tried to make her change her mind.

That's enough writing for today. I'd love some feedback. And I'd like someone to confirm for me if this is a MLC or a WAW situation.

Kevin.