Yeah, the Hope Springs movie was hard to see. Don't we all wish our sitches will have a happy ending!
H & I have seemed to have returned to our building/maintaining friendship stage. Chuck really felt most of what I was doing was working, so I'll keep in the same vein.
H & I are doing the texting thing; he sent a favorite song of his to my phone so I could listen to it on the way home from class tonight. And I saw his car is in our shed as he took another of our vehicles.
So....hmmmm....I spent some time in real estate class (while everyone else was bullish!tting) to jot down some goals, ways of thinking, ideas for me to deal with my life so I keep growing. I cried and sobbed a lot this morning. Just have to get through those times and go on. Once I got in my classic convertible playing classic rock and going to class -- something for ME -- I was fine!
I like the holding pattern analogy you mentioned. H & I have aviation background. The thing about a holding pattern is you keep moving even if you aren't getting anywhere! But that's not bad when it is needed!
Steady and more confident day by day is excellent! Do you think the DB coaching has made that difference or do you think it would have happened anyway?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway