Oh Inga, I think your words are so true. I feel the same with my S and H. H wants him to be "normal" so if he ignores the situation, it will all be fine. I on the other hand, am the one who moved forward making appts, treatment, therapy, fixing it. And each step made it more real.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss