Tomorrow is a New Day

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[quote=Kaffe Diem]Yet... you describe how busy your life is... OF YOUR CHOOSING...

And your D... still thinks he hangs the moon... and might even think he hangs the moon, even if she has no light in her room to do her homework or doesn't learn how to play the piano...[quote]

You are correct, as usual, my busy life is of my choosing, some of which will come to an end. This will be bad to say, but my being "stuck" with D16 when I am not at work is not my choosing. Part of why I think D16 thinks her dad hangs the moon is because he is not around and any time with him is fun and precious. However, when she is with him all day, a different story. I get to deal with all of the hard issues. When I've tried to involve him, he's told me that I am the adult and I need to figure it out, so I stopped including him. I've started asking him again and told him that I am not going to make important decisions without his input.