Timelines are a tough thing to gauge, and I wish I could wave a magic wand for all of us to just reconcile now. But there are obviously some things that still need to be worked out that we can't explain before that happens.
I have seen a huge growth in you since you first started posting on here. I have read for awhile before I ever registered and know that the force is strong with you!
Maybe we should change our group name to "The Jedi"
Hang in there my Brothers and Sisters!! We will persevere & we will have our true loves back for a new R, that shadows the old R with them 10 times over.