I'm there with you guys even though my marriage is over. But I will continue to wait and work till it hopefully comes together in the end.
Mrs D,
Just because the World's legal system says your M is over, doesn't mean that it is actually over! People reconcile everyday after they D. Like I said to Carnac, my IC has seen it time and time again since she started private practice, and that has only been about 14 years.
There is always hope in reconciling! To give you an example: God has led (2) friends into my path since my sitch broke out that both went through the same thing with WAW's. Both went through the Big D, and both couples are back together after their big D. Although neither couple is remarried yet, they get along better now than they ever have before & rather than rush into remarrying, they take it one day at a time & communicate with each other, the way it was intended at the first go around.
Hang in there Kiddo! There is always HOPE. That and the fact that God really does work in mysterious ways that we cannot see. Maybe you both have some more "ME" work to do on yourselves, but idk!
