Thanks mr bond
It has occurred to me that my husband may be seeing the OW again. Why? because this is the stuff that went on when he was seeing her before. Escalating anger and annoyance, not wanting intimacy and today he is sailing with friends and left 3 1/3 hours early to "hose off the spiders from the boat". I am locked out of our phone account and I saw a printout on our desk that he has a new google email account. Like I said, I am not caring as much as I did. I ain't falling apart at the seams like before.

25 yrs told me to see a lawyer just for information. Guess I should be prepared in case he has plans to ditch me.