Month 3 no movement

[Arsene]

and this is the post of the day that brings a smile to my face. Thank you Arsene!

You're welcome MrsD

I look at how long some of these LBS's had to go through their sitch (Starsky, Denver, Etc.), and I can say that by their outlook, attitude, and changes...Then it is all worth it! I have over 16 years invested with my W, and I am in it for the long haul...Cause in the end, I would go through this (1 month per year of M per MWD DR book) to have another amazing 50 years with my W.

I have Faith & Hope for all of us! We just have to keep fighting the good fight, all while growing & bettering ourselves in the process.

On 3 Go...Freshman, Freshman, Freshman!!

That doesn't sound so bad. W and I have only been together 10 years - that would make it another 7 months to go - I can hope but I won't be holding my breath on that one .

I'm all for fighting the good fight and bettering myself though.

Mine seems to want things finished, or at least the last I heard she did and we're still really early in this process I know but we're at an almost standstill as far as communication goes. There have been a few baby steps and no reason for her to back away at all, but I still get the pull back pretty hard for a few days after any interaction.

But your right....im ready, willing and able to stand for mine b/c its truly what I believe in and b/c I really do believe that we've never made a good effort at fixing this so why throw it away and have to start new when we may be able to salvage this one.

Yeah Carnac, I feel the same way about my sitch, especially with the OM involved but as you said, Denver and Starsky have managed to see their way through similar situations and it looks good for them both right now.

I'm ready to give it all I've got and then I'll find some more to give.

Im there with you guys even though my marriage is over. But I will continue to wait and work till it hopefully comes together in the end.

That may be true MrsD but you've done some great work lately and we've seen a major turn around in your sitch. Stay the course girl!

Carnac, Re: Your garage. The way I see it, it's still your house and as you said, either way the garage needs to be painted. I'd see if I can get the boys involved to make this kind of a family effort. Who knows, W might just decide to join in.