Suppo: Honestly I do agree with you, we have almost 15 years together and if it means that I have to hold out for 15 months to get things worked out I really have zero issues with that. I just hope my wife is as patient as Starsky's and Denvers etc.
Mine seems to want things finished, or at least the last I heard she did and we're still really early in this process I know but we're at an almost standstill as far as communication goes. There have been a few baby steps and no reason for her to back away at all, but I still get the pull back pretty hard for a few days after any interaction.
But your right....im ready, willing and able to stand for mine b/c its truly what I believe in and b/c I really do believe that we've never made a good effort at fixing this so why throw it away and have to start new when we may be able to salvage this one.
Im there with you guys even though my marriage is over. But I will continue to wait and work till it hopefully comes together in the end.
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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