This morning STBXH tells me he is going out of town tomorrow, Short notice, he says. And once again it is a long weekend and he is headed out of town. Big suprise, he has managed to take trips for every long weekend since OW got shipped back to Arkansas by the military.
And for those of you who haven't read my whole story, OW is not and never has been a member of our military. She is truely a camp-follower. Her husband was on active duty here in Hawaii and when he filed for divorce his unit shipped her back to her home of record. As Hawaii is considered an overseas assignment.
Leaving me to do the open house all by myself. And he couldn't be bothered to tell me when he is coming back. I guess if he shows up when I am having a kick-ass party he will just have to go sulk in his room.
Why is this annoying me so much? Why do I expect different actions from a guy who has made it plain he doesn't give a crap about me? Why does it still hurt? He says we will be friends. Not bloody likely. I don't need friends who can't tell me the truth. When I asked him a couple weeks ago was he going out of town he told me maybe, then no. I guess I just need to pretend like it is business as usual. I spent my whole married life never knowing when he would be gone and for how long.
But he isn't flying special ops helicopters anymore.
Oh well, I'm off to pick up birthday cake for my granddaughter. The party starts in a few hours. The worlds biggest Disney Princess Bounce Castle is set up in my front yard. I'd better get in a better mood. I just think if STBXH had an oz of brains he wouldn't have dropped such a bomb on the morning of a big birthday party.
He only told me he was going out of town when I told him this morning I needed to have the truck tomorrow because some parts came in for a repair it needed.
I am so looking forward to living alone and not having other people having so much influence on my life.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
