"It is over the phone though and that seems to be an issue with my W for some reason."

Have you asked her why?

Have you also ever read up on dealing with a spouse with depression? I would suggest you do.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER