When she is with me alone her mood can very greatly. Today she seems down. Very down. She is generally a very happy laid back person but she has been short with me today to say the least up until she left to do some errands, that includes playing pool, she seemed sad and withdrawn. Then she texts me just a half hour ago and seemed up beat in the texts. I think there may be some depression going on with her. However the pool table will give us something to do together some nights instead of her going her separate way. From my viewpoint it is hard to see it as a negative at this point.

My non-DB counselor is a marriage specialist. It is over the phone though and that seems to be an issue with my W for some reason.

Thanks for the advice Mr. Bond. Appreciate it greatly.