She has not left yet and I promised her a pool table. Not sure how I would have explained backing out on that promise. Already we have played several games. My guess is we will play pool almost ever night. Most nights after the kids go to bed she goes online for the rest of the night.
I have not pushed the marriage counseling and your advice there is a good reminder not too. I was just a bit confused because she seems to be fixated on the fact that I am getting counseling by phone. It is really the only thing she has brought up lately and now her counselor apparently agrees with her that it can not be effective. If that is a big issue to her should I get a local counselor too?
