The fact that she still remembered it is a big deal. You better start learning that it's how women operate. Just because YOU don't see it as a big deal, doesn't mean that SHE DOESN'T.
"After Friday night, I became certain that she was cheating on me. Where could she be if not at someone's house til 3am?
Be careful of guessing things, unless you have concrete evidence, you have to stop this line of thinking or else all you're going to get is angry. Which is what you're doing.
But the realization I had was this: whether it's physical or emotional or just losing interest, she cheated on me the moment she started closing herself down."
That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. You do understand that you can NOT like someone and not have an A right? Read the Walk Away Woman. You've got alot to learn about women.
"When she gave up on the marriage, she gave up on her promise to me. THAT is the issue, not who she's with now or how she's coping. THAT is what needs to turn around if this is going to go anywhere. "
No. In order for things to turn around, both of you need to learn to communicate about each other's needs. And that starts with YOU.
"I guess my self respect is coming back a little bit."
That's not self respect talking. It's anger. Self respect comes from understanding through compassion. You're just getting angry.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
