I must be reading the wrong version of DR. Where did it say to BUY your W a pool table and INVITE her to lunch?

You do know that that's pursuing and putting a lot of stress on her.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER