Yesterday was the student orientation and my wife had an EA with another father in my son's class. She was very nervous about going as apparently this guy is a player and his wife found out about my wife and a few other indiscretions. She apologized to me before we went for putting me through this (meaning the EA and it coming out). I supported her throughout the night. Thought it was a good moment to show that we could be together.
Today I had a pool table delivered as my wife loves pool and I know it is something I can easily get her to do with me. After the table was delivered I told her I was going to lunch (at her favorite restaurant) and asked her if she wanted to go. She did. Could have cut the tension with a knife. I remained happy and paid attention to her. She would not look at me and looked like she was going to cry. She asked me again about my phone counseling. I have a psychiatrist that I speak to on the phone every week and I have had two DB phone consultations. Both have been amazing. She told me that she has been to a local psychiatrist and they both do not understand how I can get help over the phone. That it did not make sense to either of them. I was hoping she was going to ask me to join her with her counselor but she did not so I told her I was really happy so far with my counseling. Really was not any conversation after that. Went home and played a couple games of pool together during which she seemed real sad then she left to do some errands.
Do I need to get a local psychiatrist? This is the second time she has brought it up. Hard to see how she is focusing on that of all things.
