By separating our selves from anothers actions and choosing to love them. I think some people, myself included confuse boundaries with detached love. Kinda like how you love your toddler in spite of their acting out behavior, focusing on the positive and ignoring the current tantrum/phase.
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012
