i reread your post labug - the idea that certain things belong to certain people - that is something i have to add to what i need to mull on.
it really got through to me.
why am i carrying what s has to take care of ?
why am i carrying what h has to take care of?
why am i NOT truly and completely carrying what I need to take care of within myself?
is it easier to take on other peoples's stuff, in the name of responsibility and commitment, so then one doesn't have to face carrying one's own stuff?
i think i just wrote out what my problem is.
once again.. you and KD just nudge me to the truth of the matter?
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"