STE, you are truly getting it! It's hard won but it's worth it.

The "bad a$$" or "bit@h" protects us from opening up to feel.

So true, so true. So how do you keep that bit@h from reappearing? I'm asking not as a challenge but rather an explanation because I think many of us here have that alter ego we'd love to squelch.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss