Hrm, these day-to-day interactions you with your H make me grateful in many ways that my H moved out.
I remember him complaining about the way I folded the collars on his shirts and the creases in his jeans.
Even yesterday he said a cutting thing about a pic of me I showed him asking if it would make a good profile pic for FB. "yep, that's a typical pic for you -- light colored background that makes you look washed out."
But he took a good pic of me later which we used for that. It's back and forth, back and forth.
Sometimes I wish there was an MLC rehab facility and they could just go there and get straightened out after a few weeks so we wouldn't have to deal with it!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway