Thank you.
I'm going to try and take a day to go talk to my wife about what we need to agree on with our legal separation, the children, and our house and bills. I've covered for her for way too long now. It's time she takes responsibility for what she has done and what path she choses to take now. I am not going to be spiteful or ugly in any sort of way, but I am going to tell her what I expect and that we will be discussing it with the lawyer taking care of our separation.

I'm hoping my wife will agree and allow my to move back in the house to take care of things. She can live wherever she wants as long as she is responsible for what she owes.

I have to say, this is not the woman I married. She is doing things that I would have never imagined she would do. She's living her life apart from what her norm is. I'm suspecting drugs, drinking, and a hormonal/chemical things going on. My love for this woman hasn't changed at all. I love her deeply. Miss her tremendously. And taking this action will be one of the hardest things I've ever done.


Me:42
W:43
M:03/08/98
SD17, D13
Found out about affair:12/16/10
Found out again: 06/22/12
Split: 06/22/12