Someone once said as long as your thoughts are on your H(W) then they aren't on you. And if his(her) thoughts aren't on you then no one in the sitch is thinkging about you....anyway what got to me is that I am worth time and energy and that by detaching I took my focus and energy off him and put it on me and I found that I was giving so much of my time to thinking about him that I was empty inside and I didn't know until devote so much of my energy to myself. I hope that makes sense.
Sorry to highjack Suppo but this is real gold Brit. I've never looked at it this way and I need to make sure someone's thoughts are on me, let's start by the only person I can control, ME. Thanks Brit!!!
Suppo, I'm going through your thread now, will be sure to comment soon.
Cheers!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
