MrsD: As a 39 year old man I can assure you that while a 20 something could certainly catch my eye and interest me in certain ways, at the end of the day i'll take someone with common interests who I can talk to. And I also think that Bond hit it perfectly when he talked about you two having history. It may not all be good history and it may be tough to wait, but I can assure you that your in his memory in GOOD ways as well.
Being 46 myself, I'll have to agree with Carnac on this one. I'll take the 30-40 something over a 20-year-old anytime. I've got my own kid to raise, don't want to play games with my partner on top of this. Besides, like Bond says, you have a history together. You know more about him that she's had a chance to learn in the last 5 weeks.
I'm happy for you Mrs D. Keep up the good work but don't start pursuing again. That concert invite was probably a bit too much IMO. Just leave it for now. You don't want to scare him off.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then