Zig, I was going to ask you to visit Inga's thread, where I took her recent post above back to repost on her thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2275449#Post2275449

I wanted to have you stop in there in order to see if you can figure out why you might think your H responded and stepped up... and then I realized you found it, as bolded above, which I've also taken over to Inga's thread.

cool