"I still worry the whole time he was here if he was comparing me to her, etc"
Absolutely he was thinking about all of this and more. What you have to do is make yourself so prominent that he can't think of anything else but you. Show him the woman who he married in the beginning.
I think I was doing that while he was here? Upbeat. Funny. Caring to our son.... what I worry about more is the physical side. Im 11 years older than she is. Shes smaller. She doesn't have the kid flab. Stuff like that. You know. Why take chicken when I can have steak?????
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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