"I still worry the whole time he was here if he was comparing me to her, etc"
Absolutely he was thinking about all of this and more. What you have to do is make yourself so prominent that he can't think of anything else but you. Show him the woman who he married in the beginning.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.