Arsene, isnt it surprising that they at least act as though they aren't very 'proud' of what theyre doing, yet they dont do differntly. Thats a pretty interesting dynamic, I had a friend tell me that maybe she felt 'guilty' going to church and my response was then why doesn't she try to work on things? Its a mystery to me. And your exactly right about changing things...I think its simply a small security blanket for us to keep the status quo all we can.
