MrsD: I know its impossible for them to not be thinking about things as well, but I have to guess they don't dwell on things the way we do so don't worry about being compared to anyone. What you want him to do is compare you to you b/c if your really changing then it will be obvious that you arent the same person and you want him to see that.
I think you did absolutely wonderful by leaving, whether or not he knew you were upset by it doesn't matter, if he knew you were upset then he saw you dealing with things in a different way than before, and if he didnt know you were upset then he saw that you didnt have to sit their and pine away for him the entire time your around him. Either way its a win for you.
