I am glad I just read your thread Arsene. I will read more when I get a chance. The comments that MrsD made about “not fixing things” makes sense. I guess I just do it sometimes without thinking about it. Like I would like a way to “fix” the way my W feeds our kids. I also always remind the kids to brush their teeth and sometimes I will remind them in front of W. That might piss W off in a way. I don’t know, I just want our kids healthy so I don’t think it’s too much to ask that they eat well and brush their teeth. Does this mean I am being too much of a fixer?