I really like your honesty. I am the same sometimes wishing the worst for my wife who is a WAW even though I know it's wrong to want to see people fail. I guess it's a natural thing when your hurt so much by someone. There was an OM or a PA in my situation tho so it hurt more.
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now