Thanks Cadet. I am trusting this. I was very lost until I found DB. Before DB I was a following my wife around like a puppy. I was losing my mind. DB gave me my self worth back, some peace of mind and a light at the end of the tunnel. Patience is the key for me now. The interesting thing is that minus the issues with my wife I can not remember being happier. These are changes I needed to make. It is the dread that it might not be enough to save my marriage that is scary. Besides that I feel like I am creating a new life for myself. Hopefully my wife will want to be part of it.

Thanks again for the support.