oh my YC- i have to go read your earlier posts - but just this last one - oh i'm so so delighted for you - so delighted - and for your h too.
this is so wonderful - that you both have reached this point in what seems like a pretty short time - though i know, not for you
i liked so much to hear what you said about your h being gentle and how he had hid it for so long. that must feel so wonderful for you after all the turmoil.
there's a real healing quality to gentleness - and i'm so glad that you have that at play here
keep us updated with what is going on and i wish you both well:)
(((((((( ))))))))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"