hi vera - noticed you posted and so came to read.

do you think he was trying to compliment you about getting into shape without being too obvious?

what does KD say on this stance you are taking with him?

he's been offering you a lot of invitations - almost non-stop and you say no to everyone of them.

i guess i'm trying to figure out where you are at and what your beliefs are in this situation. hope you don't mind me asking.

do you believe that if you are really really dark on him then that is the best way to turn this around?

also what do you believe will be the message to him if you had indeed gone to dinner with him?

what do you believe will happen if you went to dinner with him

just throwing out these questions - to see whether you are acting on certain beliefs you have, rather than acting on a specific plan you have.

don't mind me, i'm just in the mood to "probe"

hope your'e well
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