Just 7 days ago my husband had taken me out to dinner. When we got home, I was outside in the truck looking for a paper. He came out, asked what I was doing, I told him, then with his hands in his pocket, said "I think its times for you to move out". I was devistated. Here we were on the front lawn, just back from a dinner I thought was going well, and he asked me to move out. I cried, i cried hard, i asked why, he said he thinks this is for the best, the best for me, and the best for the kids. I just didn't know what to do. I packed my bags and went to a friends. Later I returned. I said that I loved him and the family, and I think we can make this work. My plan was to go straight to bed. The next thing he said tore me up and I just started in, started crying, asking questions and so forth. He said that it was fine and dandy, but he wanted me out of the house in a few weeks, by Labor day. Because I would not go, he left, spent the night at a friends house. The next day i found out he was at a mutual friends house and he has been there all week. We tried to talk. Used I statements and so forth. But the most heart wrenching statement he made was " I am tired of not liking you". I just don't know what went wrong. The only thing I could think of was my being layed off 4 years ago and losing a great job with great benefits, and now I have a job that pays more but no benefits. I just don't know. He said he exhausted options and hope. Please help! I send him Good morning messages and Goodnight messages every day. I also send him jokes, and recent news. The kids live with me, and they don't seem affected. Should I just hang back and let it run its course or what?
