Wow, Vera, I'm glad you picked that out. I have the same dynamic as well. When I don't share the same opinion as H and offer my own opinion, he says I am challenging him and that we don't agree on anything, so we are not compatible. I will try to remember this the next time it happens. I've often felt like I am not allowed to have my own opinions.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together