There is definitely a different air at home tonight. H is very cold and short. I just want to tell him to get off the rag and start acting like an adult and not a little child.

I cooked some chicken for dinner. I usually get accused of undercooking it. Tonight I got accused of vulcanizing it and no thank you, which generally means he didn't like it. But a thank you for my efforts would be nice.

I am continuing to be pleasant and going about my business. Today has definitely shown me how easy it is for each of us to react off of what the other does. Too bad I cannot explain this to H. While I told him about the concept of Solution Oriented Brief Therapy and looking towards the future, I doubt he will look in to it.

I'll cross my fingers that he will sleep on it and wake up a different person.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together