My normal day was to work from roughly 4/5 am to 3, get home and spend some time with the kids. When they went to bed or even before I would watch a show, or work, or play on the computer. Since my 180 I do have been going in a lot latter, still getting home at 3 but spending more time as a family. No more work at home, shows or computer. I am involved.
That's a LONG day. I'm proud of you for your changes. I'm sure it's not easy.
Quote:
I wrote down the 20 new habits that I want to form and I have been sticking to them very well:
TOO MANY! PICK 3.
Quote:
I have gone out on my own a few times now which my wife has found shocking. I have started taking dance lessons which was even more shocking.
Why did you choose dance lessons?
Quote:
At least in the short term she is planning on being together it seems as she has asked me about some travel dates in the beginning of October so she could make some other plans.
As mentioned in a previous post she made the following comments:
- Today she told me she was thinking of starting her own business. I encouraged her to
These things are positive and her negatives are what the 'vets' call 'script'.....the usual negative behavior of the spouse that isn't happy and/or leaving.
You have mostly positives. It might not 'feel' that way.
You say you have your own business and work a ton. What are your strengthgs? What are the things that have made you successful in your business in your personal life (presently or previously)?
Hang in there...we are here to support you and help you brainstorm solutions.
